Valde!
Happy sunshine!!
Sad sad rain!
Numb fog!
Dark lonely nights
Bright smiley days
Cold freezing wind
Pendling temperature
You were on my mindI will always remember
Never forget
No matter how cold
No matter how sad
You made me happy
You made me glad
Till we meet again:
Thank you for being my friend!2010-01-08
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The last act in Spain – for now!
Well, we have to say that this holiday didn’t go quite as planed! But we go home with knowledge we can use later on!
We had made up our mind about a house, even though it was a little over our budget!
In a couple of hours on Tuesday a lot changed and we didn’t know who to trust any longer! There are agents with their office in their pocket (not the best ones) and some really good ones. And the owners changed their mind so we thougth we lost the house. But on Tuesday night we got the chance again so we said yes to the agent with the pocket office!
We have seen 27 home and only this one was as we wanted! We didn’t want to miss that oppotunity.
Wednesday – yesterday was public holiday so we took off to an animalpark! Linneas was very brave and touched a snake and a big blue ara and finally she sat on an Asian elephant!
This morning was scheduled for us to get Spanish ID numbers and we met up with and English man at 6:30 drove to Murcia for an hour and had the document at 10 o’clock. This number is required if you want to buy a house here!
On the way there and back we talked a lot about our situation. The holiday here took a negative turn when Valde ran away, were found and died. It has been hard to keep a good mood.
We have met 9 realestate gagents and only felt odd with 2 of them – the one we had contacted in Sweden and his associated. And it was them who showed us the house we liked the best!
We felt there were something fishy about it all! The price was over the budget and we were unsure how much we will be able to rent it out!
So!….. about one hour ago we phoned the lawyers office, the bank and the pocket agent and said we will not be able to buy this house!
On Saturday we will return to Denmark and Sweden to think about what we learned here and where to go from here! Maybe we’ll be back in the summer on holiday or on househunting, but for now we feel good about our decision!
To day it has been raining raining and raining!! We are hoping for some sun on our last day here and we’re all going to the market to do some final shoping! Tormorrw night we’ll be packing for the flight back home to Denmark and Sweden! MAN! I miss my bed and my kitchen!
Valde died this morning
A little while ago we got the sad news that Valde went to sleep last night and the vet checked up on him during the night, but he never woke up this morning!
We have to be gratefull that he was found and died in a warm bed with carring people around him. But it’s very hard to understand that he’s gone and I’ll never get to touch and hug him again! He was the kindest and best dog you could ever want! He was too weak and too old to cope!
He was born in Denmark and now he returned. His final resting place will be my in laws garden in Denmark! He was the first dog for both Hans and me.
Valde was born 1998-06-18 and died 2010-01-03
RIP my friend!
You are forever in my heart!
Valde has been found!
We just got a phone call telling us that Valde was found in a forrest quite a bit from my parents in laws house! Now they are on the way to the veterinary to get him check! He was very weak and didn’t seem to react to his “grand parents”. He probably needs water!
Now we’ll wait for news from the veterinary, they might keep for some day! We just hope he is strong enough to cope it, he was gone for more than 50 hours!
Spain day 5 & 6
Day 5 2009-12-30
This day we had an appointment with Annette and we met her at 10 o’clock. She had planed to show us 3 houses but 2 had been sold the day before!!! The one we saw was in the complex where we lived i 2004 – but it was nothing for us – rather worn down!
Since we were only 5 minutes away from the favourite we drowe by the house and they were home: Liz was outside and we were welcome to check everything again! IT IS VERY NICE!!!!!
It´s a “quad” house: A building with 4 houses each in the corner. It is south facing with a terrass on the front and parking place. On the ground floor there’s a living/diningroom, kitchen and a scullery with washing mashine and places store stuff! Also a guest toilet.
On the first floor there’s the bahtroom and 2 bedrooms, one with acces to a balcony.
On the second floor there was a solarium but it has been made to a extra room with windows on 2 sides ( walls to the neigbour and the stairs on the other 2 sides.) It’s an extra livingroom and a guestroom!
Everything is well maintained. It’s sold with furnitures (that standard in Spain) and there’s a pool very close by only for the those who lives in these houses!
We have got a copy of the handlings for the house and on monday our lawyer will check it! Is all fine we’ll probably reserve the house by paying 3000 €
I’ll wait with pictures till we know more!
Day 6 2009-12-31
A day off! So we drowe off to look at some areas where we’ll look at some house on the 2nd of January! But just before we left we got a call from my parents in law: Our dear dog Valde had gone missing and been gone all night! They had reported it to the police since he’s chipped.
That was very sad news, normally he finds his way home but he’s unfamiliar with the area at my parents in law!
We drowe off and saw that the friday market was moved to thurday so we went in to the market! That was nice!
Later we drowe around for a while, came home and drowe off to a Chinese restaurant to eat our new years dinner! We called home to hear news of Valde but there was none!
The dinner was good: Good food, nice people and they asked if Linnea was Chinese! Our little princess was very popular! One of the sevants asked if she still had a Chinese name and was intrested to know if it was in her passport! She seemed happy to hear it was. She wrote Sunxue in Chinese and I showed her my tatoo – it was the same! We are absolutely going back while we’re here!
Linnea went to bed when we came home (21:30 = very late for her!) and I broke down! I couldn’t stop crying and thinking of Valde! He had been gone for 24 hours! (Now in this moment writing we up to more than 36 hours!) The only way I was able to stop crying and thinking was by sleeping so I fell asleep at 22:30! It must be the first New years evening I haven’t been awake on midnight!
A Spanish tradition is to eat 12 grapes at midnight to bring good luck into the new year!
I must say I didn’t expect my 2009 to end like this: Loosing my weding ring a week before christmas and that Valde going missing! I feel so sorry for my parents in law. They are absolutely not to blame!!!!! Valde have been running away since we moved in to our first house. He smells a female dog and goes by the nose! He has been jumping fences, digging tunnels under etc. He follows his instincts ! But he always have returned or we have found him! We are still hoping that someone found him and that he’s alive an well! But bad thoughts are making me cry! He has been our Valde for 11,5 years!!!
Spain day 1-4
Day 1 – 2009-12-26
We got up at 5 in the morning and took the train and the Metro to Copenhagen airport. Linnea was so excited by everything but most of all she wanted to board the plane. Finally we were flying and she was sure she could see Pippi Longstockings house, Pippis dads boat (Hoppetossa) and many more things from the stories she knows. But the best was when she said: “There’s a lot of snow under us!” I told her that it was the clouds, and she asked: “Why are the clouds beneath us?”
We arrived in Alicante, got our car and drove to Torrevieja. We found Burger King and ate a very late lunch. Then we drove to the apartment only 6 minutes away! But it took more than half an hour to get to the parking in front of the building! Roadwork cut off the only road leading to the parking, all other roads was one-way streets so finally we drove against the signs! Linnea was then asleep in the car and my mother stayed with her while Hans and I unloaded the car!
The apartment itself is fine BUT and that is a big BUT: We were asked to bring sheets and bed linen but there was only 1 cover – a double size and 3 blankets so none of what we brought fits! Next surprise was the shut doors of the fridge and freezer, the powers was turned off! Inside the fridge there were a lot of black spots of mold and some garlic. In the freezer there were a bag of vegetables that had turned in to a brown liquid! 🙁
We went down to the car again and went shopping! We had a plan to buy a Spanish Mobile phone and had got a company we had got recommended but we couldn’t find anyone that sell this SIM card! Hans drove around all night to look but didn’t find anything! After our return we started to clean and found dirty towels in the washing machine! In our closet the bottom self is broken, we found stuff I all drawers, the water in the toilet is running and we decided to wash all we’re going to used in the kitchen and what we won’t uses! We have taken photos of all that seems to be missing or broken!
Day 2 2009-12-27
A day with Rolf after a night in a hard bed we got up to the first day of house hunting! In total 5 houses! Of those only 3 had pools and of those 2 one of the smelled of mold. So now we only have one of the 5 left!
We went to Rolf’s house to get a key for a property and he invited Linnea in to his garden to pick 2 oranges from his tree! They tasted so good and Linnea thought it was so exciting!
The weather today was beautiful sunshine and 21° C, very nice to sit outside for a cup of tea and coffee! Linnea was ready to jump in the pools every time we saw one!
We ate a late lunch at home and went to the center of Torrevieja so Linnea could see the sea! The street sales people were out and the girls shopped 2 scarf’s and a flamingo dress for Linnea!
Rolf told us where to by the mobile phone and tomorrow we’ll start there just before we meet up with Lars who is going to show us 5 houses!
Day 3 2009-12-28
The day with Lars We started a bit early to visit one of the mobile phone shops Rolf had recommended but because of Christmas they opened an hour later so we had to leave again. Hans later drove back while we were eating lunch but the card was sold out! Tomorrow we’ll try again.
All properties today was situated in Villa Martin, 20 minutes drive south from Torrevieja center and a few km away from the sea. We visited 6 homes some only 6-7 years old and some 15-20 years. It was very interesting to see all in real life the ones that we thought the most of when we looked at home gave a different impression now!
It is very difficult to find what you seek here, not that it’s impossible, but we all agreed if we could mix some of those we have seen now it would be the best!
They fail on things like:
- Facing north
- To small bedroom
- Boring neighborhood
- Very high community fee = what you pay for maintenances of pools and gardens.
So where are we now? Actually I don’t know! I’m writing this in the middle of the night (4:10) because I woke up and my mind started spinning. I want to look on the internet! But we can’t until we get that SIM card or find an internet café!
Day 4 is with Ronny who will show us 2 more in Villa Martin and maybe come with suggestions for more to look at! But I feel unsure if we should see more if they also are in Villa Martin since we more or less decided that it’s too far from Torrevieja center with the harbor and the beaches.
That’s why I want an internet connection, to check my emails and write to those agencies that are going to show us properties on Wednesday, Saturday and Sunday what area we’re want to look in! And of course to post all this on the blog! 😉
We are very tired in the evenings and fall asleep no later than 23 o’clock, also Linnea had got a cold in Denmark, my mother a little and now Hans too – so far I haven’t got it and I hope it’ll keep like this.
The beds here are almost like in China – hard as rocks! But the size is different! I’m sure our double bed is by Spanish standard size: 135 cm x 190 cm, imagine Hans and I trying to turn in the bed: I wonder who will be the first to fall down on the floor!
Now I better try to get some sleep, we’ll be leaving about 10 in the morning for the telephone shop and an internet café. At 11 we’ll meet with Ronny.
PS. Rolf told us that the neighborhood we live in isn’t the best – Lars told us why: Very close to the park opposite our building is the street of the prostitutes…. Hmmmm!!!!
PPS. Linnea had her flamingo dress on all day – she was a dancing princess!
Day 4 2009-12-29
To day we saw 4 houses and one is now on the top 2 list! All houses are different but this one had it all! But we want to look again tomorrow and on Saturday and Sunday! Then we will decide if we have anything we want to lay a bit on!
We have decided we want to “stay” on the right side of the lakes! (seen from the sea) We do want the shorter distance to Torrevieja Center and the Habour!
Today we have had sunshine and 21° and walked around in t-shirts – so NICE!!!!
Now we shall look at the photos from today and the favourite!!!
I suppose you want some photos too?
Here they come:
Christmas & New year in Spain
As many of you know by now, we’re leaving from Copenhagen airport on the 26th of December destination Alicante in Spain. We will return on the 9th of January 2010!
In Spain we have booked several real estate agencies to show us holiday homes and we do hope to find one that suites us!
My mother will join us on this trip because it just might get a bit boring for Linnea to go from home to home!
Here you can see photos of 6 homes we will look at – the agencies will look for more to show us! So we don’t know how many homes we will be looking at in total! (My favorite is left in the middle!) I will try to update the blog while we’re in Spain but probably not every day!
Now I know
Almost 2 weeks ago I bought some mandarins and I ate one after a long time with out fruit (carbonhydrates) – but I couldn’t stop with just one! Had to eat more of them. I could stop tomorrow I thought! When we were out of mandarins I ate some potatoes and some bread and what happens to me?
Now I know! I get so damed sleepy! My bloodsugar raises sky high and then drops to the lowest of low! And I fall asleep – infront of the TV or the computer – no problem! I loose my focus – food gets on my mind but I have a hard time on finding out what to eat to dinner!
So what did I learn from this: I react to carbonhydrates if I get them every day that will say more than my 400g of vegstables a day.
Today I had to lie down for half an hour, fell asleep direct and now I get angry with my self: I actually knew that carbonhydrates has that effect on me so WHY did I do it????
I know the answer to that too: I’m an addict! I got a disease and I got to be on my guard not to act on it! And it is sad that I can’t be a normal person that can eat what ever I want!
It is very easy for me to recognize when I start to overeat, but the hard part is to recognize that I’m beeing taken over by the food again! The need to sleep again just after 4 hours awake made me realize that fact!
I don’t want to be a slave to food, I want to be ME! And I wont give up fighting for my life as a healthy person! NEVER GIVE UP my father tought me! Now it’s time to listen to my body and stop this madness!
One of my goals is to be nicely dressed when I graduate the 28th of May 2010 – and yesterday I found a jacket I would love to wear that day. I will think of this jacket everytime I think of food – knowing that I will not be able to wear it if I eat carbonhydrates!
Presents from China
Today came a parcel from China. Linneas foster family send her some local handcraft and she was very happy.
I told her it was from her foster mom & foster dad and she said: It’s from my family!! I answered: Yes it’s from your Chinese family! They took so good care of you until we came to pick you up! So we are family now!
We opened the parcel in the kitchen and left the things there when we went to eat. When Linnea almost was in bed she ran to the kitchen: My China things! And she brought all of them to her room. Tomorrow she’ll bring some of them to kinder garden to show her friends!
Thank you Huang Guang Shun & Zhang Yun Zhi it was very kind of you to think of Linnea – I felt that she felt she was special to resieve a parcel from you!!
Here comes some pictures – click on them to enlarge!
PS Doesn’t she look big on these pictures? I’ll never stop being amazed by this miracle girl – my daughter!
2 Years to day!
2 years ago we were in China thinking we had made our whorst mistake to take a little girl away from everything she’d ever known!
To day we know it was the best thing we ever did!
2 years is a lifetime for Linnea, but only a small part of our lives!
Finally it feels like we’re in the right place, we are the family we want to be!
To day all 3 of us are a solid unit, like we have been together forever! Even though we sometimes forget Linneas origin we’ll always have China in our hearts!
We will never be able to understand how it could be so right, but we are forever greatfull for having her in our lives!
Never for a minute do we believe that we could have done it better our self, never a minut of sorrow for not having a new born baby and never do we wish to get a biological child! We are so happy now! After years of sorrow and despair, joy and fustration we are now at the desitnation we set off for in July 1998. I has been a long trip but to day looking at Linnea it was all worth while!
We have celebrated the day with presents for Linnea: New clothes and a keybord. I have had it for a long time, and I’ve seen Linnea look at childrens keybords in the shops. So today she got it!
We also went to the cinema in Hässleholm to see Curious George and we ate at a Chinese restaurant.
Photos from to day:
She was so happy that she started to dance….. If you can’t see it on Youtube – download it here, 32 Mb
I have made a small film to selebrate this day. If you can’t watch it here, you can download it here. (85 Mb)